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Number of posts: 9545
Age: 42
Localisation: Tennessee
Registration date: 2007-01-30
 |  Subject: Re: Prayer Request  Sun Apr 10, 2011 6:55 am | |
| I hate it that you have gone through all this. But, in the end, when you can praise God for carrying you through this storm, you will give the devil a big ol' black eye. _________________  I might have decided, or maybe not, that I should or shouldn't, depending on the issue or non-issue, to possibly share or not share, any thoughts, opinions, or facts (that might not be deemed factual by some), due to possible fear of any misinterpretation or retribution. |
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Addy
Number of posts: 155
Age: 37
Localisation: Mystic, CT
Registration date: 2008-11-18
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Sun Apr 10, 2011 8:49 am | |
| Yeah, one thing i can say about all this is I haven't cursed God for everything i've been through, Its through his grace alone that I can stand and walk otherwise id be a major basket case.
The toughest with all of this is dealing with the STD. Ive also decided if the bloodwork comes back with anything positive that Ive decided to pursue legal action. If for anything the amt to cover costs for doctors and meds. |
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sabidoo
Number of posts: 1943
Age: 44
Localisation: Gordonsville, TN
Registration date: 2007-04-28
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Sun Apr 10, 2011 6:38 pm | |
| Don't forget pain and suffering. Those punitive damages can add up and cost her more than the new guy will ever be able to afford.  |
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Addy
Number of posts: 155
Age: 37
Localisation: Mystic, CT
Registration date: 2008-11-18
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Mon Apr 11, 2011 7:09 am | |
| Part of me if it comes to that, wants to sue her for every dime she has |
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sabidoo
Number of posts: 1943
Age: 44
Localisation: Gordonsville, TN
Registration date: 2007-04-28
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Mon Apr 11, 2011 8:14 pm | |
| Trust me, after only 3 failed hitchings, just let it slide. Wash your hands (and hootnanny) of her and pretend she never existed. Ain't NO woman worth the cost of lost time in thought..... |
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Guilty/Forgiven
Number of posts: 2846
Age: 42
Localisation: Terra Firma
Registration date: 2007-05-18
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Mon Apr 11, 2011 8:29 pm | |
| I pray that this whole experience makes you stronger and not bitter, compassionate and not hateful...
After my divorce I was bitter and hateful, and depressed. But with time I realized that she wasn't worth allowing all that to eat me up. So I pursued God with even greater intensity and sought His Grace to bury that negativity (even though I wanted to bury my ex).
God was gracious enough to help me get over it, and He even brought Lisa into my life 2 years after my divorce. We've kept Christ in our marriage and He's blessed us beyond our wildest dreams.
I say all this as encouragement. Stay faithful to One and He will bring GREAT things your way. |
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Addy
Number of posts: 155
Age: 37
Localisation: Mystic, CT
Registration date: 2008-11-18
| | Subject: Re: Prayer Request Tue Apr 12, 2011 3:04 pm | |
| Good news is bloodwork came back all negative and i emailed my ex telling her she needs to get checked out I didnt accuse her of anything but i know. I also got approved for state medical ins. So next step will be getting a physical
My goal and i mean this 100% Is to be able to actually forgive her. I realize i am still grieveing and I know in time I will be done. Problem is i wish i was done now so i can continue moving on but in God's timing not my own.... |
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