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PostSubject: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 8:46 am

My heart hurts so much for a friend of mine right now.  I worked with Melanie at Vons pharmacy for several years... she's such an upbeat pleasant person to know... she just told me that her husband Dennis shot himself right in front of her not long ago. He had been suicidal and taking meds but I guess it was all too much for him.  She actually witnessed him do it. I'm just so sad for her.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 8:53 am

Oh my goodness...  I cannot imagine what that must have been like.  My prayers go out to her...
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:06 am

He was a bit of a jerk at times, which makes me wonder about the whole "right in front of her" thing... a person wouldn't do that to their wife unless they were trying to hurt them too. Idk... it's just such a crazy thing to process..
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:08 am

That totally sucks all the way around.  Prayers.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:11 am

Thanks for your prayers- her "coping" mechanism is going to a "Medium" (me and Lisa rolled our eyes)... to each their own, but I just asked her "how's that going for ya ?" Cuz I don't wanna trash on her beliefs or anything during this time. She knows my faith well, which makes me wonder why she would even tell me. She knows I think that stuff is not helpful, and potentially dangerous.  Idk, such a sad situation...
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:20 am

Well, she may be telling you this as a sort of cry for attention?  It definitely puts you in a unique position to speak Truth to her. While I agree that this is not the time to trash on her beliefs, you could still use it to shine the light of Christ into her life.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:24 am

That poor lady, what a horrible thing to have to go through.

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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:39 am

I hear ya Kerrick, it's certainly crossed my mind.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 9:57 am

Wow. Sad That's really upsetting. I hope that she can find a healthy way to cope with this traumatic event. Sad I hope she is doing okay. I can't help but feel bad for the medium as well. People get involved with that for different reasons, but when I used to do that, it was because I felt lonely and wanted to have someone I could always talk to.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Thu Apr 30, 2015 11:46 am

Considering what the woman experienced and seen... just 2 weeks ago... she is doing shockingly well.
We talked for about a half hour and she seemed fairly stable. She said she had to go back to work or it was gonna eat her up.  They were married since the 80s ! Long time !
I've had traumas much less than that and it really screws you up- I've had flashbacks and nightmares - and that was from trauma that's not even close to seeing your spouse kill themselves!  Whew!!!
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Fri May 01, 2015 1:52 am

Romans 8:28 my friend. God uses everything for his glory. He may use this tragedy to open doors for you to talk to her about Jesus, kinda like what Kerrick was saying.

I'll pray for her, and you. If God seems to be opening a door, run through it.
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PostSubject: Re: Broken heart   Fri May 01, 2015 9:40 am

Praying for her...
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