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PostSubject: Just need prayer   Tue May 19, 2015 5:38 pm

Let's just say that, as one of the staff at my church, I am very tired of petty drama.  I don't know how much longer I can keep doing this.

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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Tue May 19, 2015 5:41 pm

Let's just say that, as a mod on CMR, I feel ya.  I love you

Praying for you my friend.  That stuff can really wear down on a person.  I hope it gets resolved soon.
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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Tue May 19, 2015 5:54 pm

Praying for you brother, church drama is the worst.

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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Tue May 19, 2015 6:18 pm

You go it!  Drama Llamas suck.
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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Tue May 19, 2015 6:28 pm

kerrick wrote:
Let's just say that, as a mod on CMR, I feel ya.  I love you

Praying for you my friend.  That stuff can really wear down on a person.  I hope it gets resolved soon.



I know you understand.  My leaving opened the hole you are now in.  I guess you can blame that on me.  lol!


I will say that I enjoyed the message board drama more.  I can, most of the time, ban someone and the trouble stops.  Sadly, with church work, the drama often doesn't get dealt with properly and it festers until someone leaves with their feelings hurt.  If it is something that the pastors have done, they won't talk to us--they talk it all around the neighborhood and get other people involved.  To be honest, sometimes I wish that church had a "ban" button.  If it did, I think I would tick off the administrator and have them ban me.

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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Wed May 20, 2015 7:46 am

It's tough to see drama after drama coming in church.
It's so understandable that you as member of the staff you have to solve all those dramas.
Chruch has to be a place where people build up each other and act different than in the "ordinary world".

You are in my prayers Chris.
Maybe God is using this for a certain goal He has for you?
Or He'll show you a new way, a new challence to serve Him.
God will show you His way and what to do.
I know what ever He is showing you is good.
God is with you.

After having problems in my own church, I understand what it is to see drama and drama come by.
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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Wed May 20, 2015 4:41 pm

Our church leadership does not mess around with drama....the people starting the problem are asked politely to leave and find some other church where their gifts might be put to better use.

Then they make a public announcement about who was asked to leave, and why.

It's only happened a couple of times in the last five years that I've been at this church, but the drama stops...sometimes a few people who agreed with the troublemakers also leave, but that just helps stop future drama, so it's a win in the long run.
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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Sat May 23, 2015 12:35 pm

We had a rough week with all the unnecessary drama at church this week.  One situation seems to be healing itself.  The other, not so much.  It is a shame that people act so childish in the church.  In the real world, if your boss picks out a color carpet you don't like and didn't ask your opinion, you don't get mad and leave.  That isn't what happened at church, but it is on the same level of absurdity.

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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Sat May 23, 2015 12:42 pm

Praying for you and your church....
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PostSubject: Re: Just need prayer   Sat May 23, 2015 4:14 pm

Keep the staff of your church and the congregation in prayer.
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